confusion is not love-- part 2

during our acquaintance party last night, i talked to my friend i asked her why do i feel this way. she asked me "have you overcomed that matter already?" i said, "about the --------y?, not really..." then she asked "do still have a crush on him?" i said, "i don't know, i'm confused..."
then she answered me "confusion is not love..." i wasn't able to answer her. maybe she's right.
last wednesday another friend of mine said to me to forget him,that he's not the right one for me. i want to follow her advice but i don't know where and how to start...